Great Leaders Lead Themselves Well

When we focus on our strengths and our blindspots and hone our key human skills (communication, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, negotiation, etc.), we become more impactful.

Read on to reflect alongside Melissa about how you can best set yourself up for success as a leader.

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The Future is Human

Earlier this week, I had the opportunity to participate in a great workplace summit, primarily targeted at CHROs, focusing on the new leadership playbook required for success today and in the future.  As you might expect, there was a discussion about where people work and what AI will bring to the workplace.

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But I Want the Model Home Look on Day One

We made the decision several months ago to have a house built in a relatively new neighborhood versus buying something that we might want or need to refresh and renovate.  We’re now just two weeks out from our closing which is super exciting and also a bit daunting because we need to pack up all of the things we’ve been living with over the past two months and start making decisions about what to do first with the house.

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Recipe Disaster?

My husband and I were in Belgium last weekend, and one of our activities was a Beer and Waffles workshop because those are two Belgian classics all in one activity. We tasted several Belgian beers to determine which one we wanted to use as part of our waffle batter, chose the Trappist-style one, and got down to work following the recipe provided.

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Embracing the Athlete You Are

I know we all don’t think about ourselves as athletes. Even though I compete in running races, I often don’t consider myself one either because my mindset is that the true athletes are those who are the ones at the big races competing to win.

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Less But Better

When you keep hearing something, you know it’s a sign to go research it or take action.  In my case, it was reading people’s comments about the book, Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less.  I read this book several years ago and got so much out of it, that I figured it was time to re-read it.  I very rarely re-read books, but, in this case...

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Decisions On A Cloudy Day

When I woke up to a cloudy day on Saturday, I was disappointed because the weather report had said it would be a warm, sunny day, perfect for the beach. The night before, I had declared it would be a beach day for me.  But, with the clouds, I debated if I should stay home and do some indoor projects I needed to get done.

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Days Like This

Last Saturday, I sailed on the Chesapeake Bay with one of my best friends and two other amazing women.  As we prepared to head out on our sail, my friend shared that this was the first time she had ever taken this specific boat out without her husband or kids…it was a new experience.  Not to get you worried about our safety…she’s been sailing for decades and has lived on sailboats for long periods and knows her way around.  Usually, though, she has another experienced sailor with her.

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But I Don’t Wear Pink

When I saw that P!NK was coming to perform in the Philadelphia area, I knew I wanted to see her, and that my sister would be the best partner in crime. Not necessarily because we hang out singing P!NK songs, but I knew her energy would be compelling for both of us.  My sister booked our seats, our hotel, and our logistics…she’s the one who is the event organizer in our family.

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Is my strength becoming a weakness?

I spend a lot of time in my head playing out scenarios, reviewing what’s happened, thinking about what I said or wish I had said, and trying to plan for the future. On the face of it, these aren’t bad things to do. However, they need to be in balance with two other critical items - feeling and doing. 

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How Consistent Are You?

I have a variety of health and training goals - increase strength, drink more water, limit my less-than-healthy eating choices, get back to running longer distances, and I could probably add more to the list. It can feel like a lot. When it feels like a lot, there’s a big risk that we don’t follow through. And, I know my key success (or failure) factor is my consistency.

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